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Old 10-12-2005, 08:21 PM
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nutz
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You're a perfectionist.
A drug conselor told me this...It took me over year to figure it out.
WTF??lol I was sleeping my car.

Did I ever told you I'm also a recoverying perfectionist.
It tides in with guilt. My standards where so high of everybody
and myself. So when we make mistakes, we beat up/ demands on others
and be beat up on ourselves in a form guilt.

None of us are perfect in sense that we demands/vaule of ourselves and standards. But we're perfectly okey the way we are..humans

So..you know "lower your expectations" makes sense.
" it's not that I don't care, it's that I care too much"
mmmm.....balance ??
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