[QUOTE=Seren;6786540]Hello Harperlee,
As long as the people who love an alcoholic don't hassle him/her about it, then the alcoholic can say "see, I'm good!"
As soon the people who love an alcoholic begin to question their drinking or ask them to stop, then that is a threat to this perfect drinking world they have in their minds.
The response seems to be either one of two things: belittle and gaslight the person into submission; or end the relationship and tell everyone the person is crazy.
Omg so true! So true!!!