The law school thing kinda sounds more like her idea than yours to me MisterA?
If I'm wrong, great but if I'm not...
I've done many things to try and impress a girl or 'get' her to like me.
None of it worked out long term.
The other thing is - you're really early recovery man - you got a head full of 'stuff'...I really believe you need your head full of recovery for a while.
I was one hot mess when I quit - I was sober but I was still looking for something, anything, to fill the void in me.
A few months on with some sober time and some deep introspection, I felt a lot more complete in myself and much less desperate for love.
It's meant a world of difference to my relationships since then
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