But he was putting me on an "official notice".
I then had to take 2 hours off of work to talk to the police and let them know and prove to them that I was NOT there
Why did you need to prove you weren't there? It all seems odd to me now I've read it back. Has your ex taken out a restraining order against you by any chance? It seems odd that a cop would be talking to you like that in the middle of the night if he hasn't.