Originally Posted by
Lostnconfu 
I have a grandma who has dementia who only I can calm down, and 4 siblings. I have had to pick people up, rescue people, change tires at any hour.
Rescue people? Change tires for people in the middle of the night? I suggest reading "Codependent No More" by Melody Beattie, for some insight into this rescuing behavior. Why one would rescue adults and be available to change their tires for them in the middle of the night is beyond me.
Well, not really beyond me -- I used to have an addict in my life too. But i came to realize that rescuing people was best left to others -- I have better things to do.
At any rate, it sounds like you have the proof that you need to exonerate yourself if he chooses to press charges. Let him continue to hear crickets. Eventually, if he jerks your chain and doesn't get a response, he will lose interest.