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Old 01-29-2018, 03:03 PM
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Sailorgirl57
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Originally Posted by hopeful4 View Post
Hello and welcome!

You are taking the most important steps. Alanon and Therapy. Make sure you are being 100% open and transparent in therapy so you can recognize and avoid old patterns.

I have taken a hard stance myself. I don't date anyone who drinks, at all. Nor would I date anyone in recovery. It sounds harsh, but I would rather be alone than risk going down that road again. That is a personal choice for everyone, and not everyone will agree with me.

Keep working on YOU!!!
. Thank you I think you are right. I need to draw tighter boundaries. This is my first post here so I guess that makes you my first new friend!
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