Originally Posted by
Wamama48 
. Tomsteve-I didn't mean to be insensitive. But I was, and I'm sorry. Losing anyone close to cancer is... well there is no word to really describe it. I watched my mom die three months after she was diagnosed. And Pete looks like he is riot, dogs are the best.
its all good and i know ya werent tryin to be insensitive. its understandable- i have heard and read the comparison a lot. if you were sittin at my kitchen table hearing what i typed i think youd be able to hear what i typed quite differently-prolly read like i was upset and stern,eh? but wasnt. quite calm and serene- i just not eloquent with my speach or writing.
there are stages of alcoholism. there is a line that gets crossed by many- that line gets crossed and there is no power to chose when it comes to drinking. no amount of willpower can help.when that line is crossed,even when the alcoholic doesnt want to drink, they cant not drink.