Thank you all for the help and advice. He ended up dumping me so I guess I just didn’t fit into his new lifestyle. Which is wildly insulting and confusing. I’m a hard worker, I don’t drink, I supported and loved him through all of the crap and now I get the boot as soon as the long awaited right decisions began to be made. We were best friends and he really convinced me he loved me. I’m so angry and hurt. At this point I just feel like “Fuck you, then. Good luck.”