Originally Posted by
Jewelstar 
Nata1980 - I’m sorry you’ve gone through a similar situation but appreciate your assessment. Everything you wrote sounds right on. He’s a total narcissistic drama queen. Always has been but for the last 18 yrs I thought It was my wifely duty to support, listen and encourage all to get very little of that in return. I hope God humbles. him one day
Yep. Same here - listen and support and being continuously blamed for not listening and not supporting enough (I never got any answer when I asked what would he like for my support to look like). Still blamed for not listening, which is when I like to remind him that it’s no longer my circus and he should share with those fine folks “who understand”.
I wish that I could cut all the contact - but we have a son together.