Simpleowl....I am sorry to say...but, his attitude toward treatment doesn't bode well for him grabbing on to genuine recovery....not at this point, anyway....
I wouldn't hold my breath, if I were you....
What kind of future you have is in your own hands....our happiness is really up to us....because if we don't put ourselves first...nobody else is going to....
Keep reading and learning...and, get to some alanon meetings...
do you have a counselor? You need support as much as he does....