Originally Posted by
Wcabs 
Thanks. To be clear, she became sober in Feb 2017, and had three minor relapses. So, 3 small relapses in 11 months (I was there for two of them and may have enabled them, bc I was obviously unaware of the infidelity, but obviously will NEVER drink around her or encourage her to drink again).
Ah. That is more hopeful. Is she working a program? This usually isn't something you do on your own.
Also have you considered Alanon? There does seem to be more women in this but many including our own gentleman moderator, Deserteyes, found it helpful.