Originally Posted by
Refiner 
Awwww 180 God Love Ya! I must give you MANY kudos for going about sobriety for your OWN self... and having the you know what to come over here and ask hard questions. But what I mean was to question HH's assessment that your "list" (hey, it IS very cool!!!) should not be a low bar for women to set as the minimum LOL.
Yes, that was what I was referring to. I was giving 180 kudos for the changes he has made for himself and his wife. I hope he continues to grow.
As for my H, I'm still deprived if emotional intamacy and feel at times I have to beg for it. But I'm here to support 180s positive effort.