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Old 01-21-2018, 07:10 AM
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Bekindalways
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Hi Miller. Welcome to Soberrecovery.

My qualifier also swore up and down that he was done. I absolutely believed he wanted to be done but also didn't believe it was that easy. I left him and he eventually spiraled down.

Generally, it is recommended to give it a year. It is possible that this will work for him but highly unlikely.

Have you tried Alanon for yourself? Also the book Codependent No More is a bit of a bible around here. You might give it a try.
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