Originally Posted by
jlong1978la 
We have children. So that makes it hard to just leave. I do love her also. It does frustrate me though because sometimes I want to talk without being judged constantly.
That's another thing we are notorious for..wanting instant gratification. Give it some sober time and focus on your recovery. Remember..It's your recovery and you don't need to discuss every part of it with her. She may think you're 'blowing smoke'. Give it some time.