Originally Posted by
Offthemast 
I'm not married but just have a question. I see these unsupportive spouse posts a lot. I wonder why you can't just say, "If you don't like it, deal with it, and if you can't deal with it, leave."
Seems harsh but isn't the way they are acting vindictive and evil?
We have children. So that makes it hard to just leave. I do love her also. It does frustrate me though because sometimes I want to talk without being judged constantly.