And I’m already feeling judged so it’s kind of uncomfortable to be open about it or say I’m even doing any amount of days.
well, you're the one that announced your PLAN.....did you not consider that someone might have questions?
you could have said you were taking up hot yoga, or veganism, or some other 90 day challenge, and you would have been likely to have an inquiry or two. often people are just being polite, appearing to care. most of the time, nobody really cares what others are doing.....they are wrapped up in their own stuff.
i think the "judgement" you are hearing ar your own projections on your drinking behaviors.