I totally get why you feel that way. At the same time, many people out there know how hard it is to quit and how brave you have to be to do it. I think you will be surprised at how many people out there admire you for what you're doing. I have been amazed at the support I have received from friends who I feel comfortable telling. You are doing something really great for your children and family by working for sobriety. If someone judges you for that, it says a lot about who they are and how they feel about themselves IMO. You're doing what you need to do to be well. That is always admirable in my estimation.