The judgement of others
I know becoming sober is something that you have to do for yourself and you shouldn’t worry yourself about the judgement of others, that aside I’m also human and new to this experience so the I am affected by others think (or if that ever goes away). I have told most people I’m doing a 90 day challenge because you can get a lot of physiological benefits as well as physiological ones as kind of a build up to my lifestyle goal, but I don’t want or am not ready for the world knowing the real motive.
Truth is I don’t want people thinking she has kids and she was drinking too much? Was she drunk all the time? How bad is/was she??
How did you or how are you dealing with that? So far when I have told people why I’m going 90 days I’ve been met with the big surprised faced WHY??? And I’m already feeling judged so it’s kind of uncomfortable to be open about it or say I’m even doing any amount of days.