So he’s trying AA with a sponsor after you kicked him out of the house, what type of recovery are you doing for you?
Looking back, I probably became an enabler without knowing it.
I think the best way we can support someone attempting sobriety is to fix our own issues and work on ourselves.
If he does happen to change with the help of AA and a recovery program and you have not done anything to change yourself or your own behaviors, how will a relationship work?