There's good advice here Peaches. Consider calling your local AA office and asking if there is a meeting for professional and law enforcement people in your community. These meetings are for folks who face extra concerns about their attendance becoming known outside of a meeting. Not all communities have these sorts of meetings however. The local AA office should be able to give you information about this.
If there is no such meeting close by, consider asking the local AA office for the name of a professional person who you might be able to speak with privately. That professional person may have other suggestions for you.
I had the same concerns you did when I first went to AA. I discovered that I had severely underestimated the amount of good will I was about to encounter in AA. We got each others back.
