Originally Posted by
TYG2 
Oh honey I have walked in your shoes. Affirmations help along with the best lawyer. (HE HAS TO PAY BECAUSE OF THE ADULTERY) I don't know your Religious beliefs so know offence intended. BUT holy hell your gut knows. Try these:
"Revenge is not in my plans. You'll f***k yourself on your own"
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"Don't cry because it's over; SMILE because that a**hole is finally someone else's problem"
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single with the damage until healed. The other one is already in another relationship "
"If you love someone set them free, If they come back, it means no one else wanted them. Set them free again."
"When life puts you in tough situations don't say "Why me" say "Try me"
Best of luck