Originally Posted by
Maudcat 
Hi, Jewelstar.
Welcome.
Well, it does sound like something’s up.
Maybe reconnected re the affair or drinking, or both.
How about you let him go and just let things unfold?
Much easier said than done, especially with children, I know.
But it kinda sounds like you could use some space and time to figure this all out.
Time and distance often brings clarity.
Peace.
Thank you for your response. I believe you are right, I’m going to stop all contact with him unless it’s in regards to the kids/house and just let him go. I need to focus on me.