I'm new at recovery, and I find that I'm taking baby steps.
Each time I do something differently, and each time I make healthy choices, I figure I must be getting a bit better. I know that I'm feeling better lately, especially in stressful situations... one of the benefits of recovery, maybe...
Ignoring that call was a step in the right direction. Have faith in yourself - it sounds like you're doing great. Once you get into your recovery, you will attract a really fantastic (healthy) guy.
Robin