His stuff is finally gone
so xabf finally came over with friends to reclaim his belongings. Of course it's no suprise that it was relatively cordial on both sides. Also no suprise that he made a joke about getting this over so they could get to drinking. When the chore was complete there was a moment or two of awkwardness, as if neither one of us knew what to say. I said something about having a nice day (not at all snide). I did thank him for doing this (total CODIE).
So now I am left here to ponder what's next for me...and he called too. I did not answer! And I have to say that was hard. As the phone rang I felt guilty. As though I am playing some hard to get game or something. I don't know why it feels so bad to do something that really is good for me. And not only that I guess I could look at it as being good for him too right. Leave him to decide what it really is that he wants out of life.
Please friends tell me. HAMMER THIS INTO MY BRAIN. That ignoring him is the best thing for all!