Phinny, is there anything that he could offer that would make this job something you would enjoy and find fulfilling? If so, make a list of what YOUR requirements would be and see what happens.
On the other hand, if you feel good about the path you were about to take, don't let this divert you. What feels right usually is what IS right, and your soul already knows what that is. Your heart and brain just haven't tuned in yet.
Sometimes I like it better when life just leads me. Making choices and decisions can be confusing. Just remember that you will still have choices tomorrow and the day after tomorrow and the day after that. Remain true to yourself and the choices will become obvious.
You inspire me, Phinny, because you're making me think here and this is a good thing right now.
Huge hugs
Ann