Originally Posted by
PuzzledHeart Forget about the substance dependency for a moment. What do you actually WANT in a relationship?
I'm still trying to figure out what it is that I want for me in a relationship and life after 1 year of being in counseling. It seems like that should be such a simple question, but very hard when you've always put everyone else first. It's hard not to feel selfish when wanting stuff even though deep down I know it really isn't.