Originally Posted by
SyndromeScared 
My concerns starts with how drunk he seems to get compared to everyone else in the room. I can have a quite a few drinks and be fine, but he has a few in a short amount of time and becomes a different person.
Hi SyndromeScared,
My first thought is that he is drinking far more than you know. The above paragraph sounds eerily familiar and is where I was about 6 months ago. I would come home periodically with a bottle of wine to have a glass with dinner. Well once a bottle of wine was opened my AH couldn’t leave it alone until it was gone. But still would have 2 glasses of wine and be completely wasted.
I soon discovered he was drinking Long Island iced tea on his way home from work on a daily basis.
Just remember that alcoholism is a progressive disease that usually doesn’t get better before it gets worse.
Good luck to you! And sorry you are in this situation!