Harley...
maybe understanding sexual addiction would help you let go of your anger...
I know i've brought this up to you before... and that your husband denies he's got issues with it...
but.. I'm thinking that if you even just explored the thing yourself... it might give you much insight into why people do the things they do around this....
and how it plays out with the other partner as well...
anger needs acceptance and acknowledgement to be released...
so... embrace it.