He was good about drinking and driving - until he wasn't.
I suppose on some level I watched him make decision after decision to put alcohol first and I should have known eventually he would abandon his commitment when it became too expensive or problematic. But it's still shocking.
Spoke with my attorney today who reminded me that with his alimony ending, he must be afraid to lose the twins because his child support will go away if they aren't with him. I am seriously not worried about finances, I would be happy to keep paying him so long as my kids are safe. But right now I am his only income, and as long as he has that as a safety, he has no compelling reason to get his life together, get a job, etc.
The whole thing is just so sad.