Hi Chev - So sorry you're here, but many of us have been exactly where you are. Have a consult with an attorney. Many will consult for free. In my state, it's fine to take photos and video and so I documented all of the bottles I found around the house and my XAH passed out in the middle of the day next to a bottle of vodka. I also kept a journal of everything, which days he drank, how much (if I knew), specific behaviors and I wrote down major events from the past where I could remember the date or approximate date. Also documented any witnesses to his behavior.