Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
the lies he believes are outrageous and put the kids in danger.
except he knew absolutely he had f'd up when the babysitter would not let him have the children. he "cried" and asked her not to tell as he KNEW his ACTIONS could jeopardize his access to his children.
HE KNEW. he had choices, he knows what he needs to do to ensure his access to his children. he did not take any of those life rings thrown to him.
he is not helpless in this addiction. i would not grant him another chance. the health and well being of the children of this alcoholic are at stake.
Absolutely. And we have cycled thru this one too many times for me to be willing to get on the same ride.
Just hung up with the mediator. She was great. He admitted that he had a drink after dropping the twins at their party. I believe that not at all, but she said it didn't matter because one drink is one too many.
He offered to do SoberLink in 17 different variations and I said no.
She got him to agree to short term supervised parenting time thru the holidays while we enlist attorneys to figure out a longer term plan.
So they are out of immediate danger and we have sidestepped court - for now.