Originally Posted by
Chevfb7 
No red flags. He drinks the 3 nights he is off to the point of passing out.
Hmm, that's a pretty big bright red flag waving right there, if you ask me.
Originally Posted by
Chevfb7 I wonder if I do file for divorce how do I prove he has a drinking problem? Other than showing how much money he spends on alcohol I have no other "proof."
Start keeping a detailed journal. Check to see if this is legal in your jurisdiction first, and if it is, record him with your cell phone when he's at the point of passing out.
Addiction is progressive. It will get worse. Start protecting yourself now.