He's been on and off Soberlink as part of aftercare and then "voluntarily" thru mediation.
It seems to keep him dry for a few months at a time, then he finds a reason he needs to discontinue. It's too expensive (I started paying for it), he needs to live his life, etc.
At our last mediation a few weeks ago I told him I thought he was drinking again and he refused to go back to it. I told him that I was pursuing expert counsel on how to talk to our kids about his alcoholism which made him furious.
I emailed my attorney last night to get our emergency motion in shape to go if he doesn't willingly grant custody. He is flat broke, the alimony he gets from me (but not child support) is done in April, and he really won't want anyone to find out about his drinking. So I hope he will comply.