She's been in the business a LONG time so she's at least modestly familiar. That said, at one point I said, "well either he will get better or he will get worse." And she said, "or, maybe he will stay the same."
I said, "it doesn't work that way. It's a progressive disease."
I haven't lashed out at him. At least part of the anger is at myself - at letting myself believe the twins were safe while also knowing that at some point, as a single dad he would make a wrong call to drive them...