Thank you all so much. This process has been rough. I am being very careful about who I talk to just because I know some people love others' drama. But just living my life and doing things that are important for me have been the most helpful. The big thing is that he has to want to help himself. Right now, he just wants others to help him and take on his burdens. I'm going to keep myself at a distance, although the process is sad. I'm a classic enabler. I really hate this disease.