Oh Suze, unfortunately for the rest of us, he's not letting go of you.
I'm not sure if we ever talked about the critical parent/vulnerable child method. I'm not remembering. It certainly sounds applicable to me, though I believe my main problems from childhood were neglect and trauma. We are working through some really heavy stuff which I'm sure the whole crew doesn't want to hear about, but I'm happy to talk with you about it if you want.