An ex-gf
My ex partner, whom i lived with for 8 years before we split 2 years ago, is in a downward spiral. He has people trying to help him but he has not been receptive. (one of his friends told me this) We are all worried he will die. I am overcome with sadness and guilt. I am not a drinker (1-2 drinks a month).
I can't quite place where my guilt stems from because I know that my ex is doing this to himself. I want to move on but right now I feel stuck. I spend a ridiculous amount of mental energy every day worrying about him. He has lost his home and his job. His dog was rehomed by a friend who was worried. He has nothing. I don't know that I can do anything for his day-to-day situation but I am still constantly worrying. I don't have access to counseling right now - I'm self employed. I think I just need to talk this out. Thank you.