Originally Posted by
Done4today 
You can't send them their things? Restraining orders can be used to stop them from contacting you. I would donate their things to charity and block/cut them off from every avenue to contact me. Part of co dependency is having someone to depend on. Good luck
She has had many chances to get her things and the last thing she told me before rehab was to just throw it all away. I guess it’s just hard for me to accept that she might never come around and apologize, she might never get better, and even if she does theres a chance she still won’t make amends. I’ve never been so f***** over and it’s hard for me to imagine how a person can live with themselves like this. Is it possible to be happy and sober after doing this to someone? I just gave so much to this Person and she really had me fooled. Thanks for your help! I am definitely doing what is suggested to me, No matter what! Can’t wait to not care anymore!