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Old 12-09-2017, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Atye View Post
Will I really have to make all new friends or is it just too hard. All my friends drink. This so lonely because you are the only one that really knows what it going on emotionally and physically. I take that back...don’t really know.
congrats on your sober time Atye.
Everyone's situation is different.

My situation was that all my friends drank, and that I never was capable of being around them without drinking...not for any appreciable amount of time anyway.

I had to change my life.

Fortunately I found that for every drinking buddy who fell away I reconnected with an old friend, or I made new ones.

I've never had a better life than I had now, never more socially active and never as happy.

Sometimes change is not an end but a new beginning...y'know?

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