Hi, Viola.
I like Dandy’s advice about distancing and keeping expectations low.
It’s difficult to see our children disappointed, but I firmly believe that eventually all those chickens come home to roost.
I have no expectations of my alcohol addict sib, who lives with my mom.
Frankly, I am amazed that he gets the trash out on the right day!
I sure get your anger, though.
I am angry at my sib All. The. Time.
My only comfort is that, eventually, I won’t have to deal with him anymore.