Originally Posted by
atalose 
Tolerating addiction can do that to you. No matter what you’ll always be second or third or not even on their radar because the drugs are their everything, not people.
As much as it may hurt that he ended this, it really is to your own benefit if you allow it to. There had to be a little voice inside of you saying for 7 years no – don’t marry him…………..it’s that voice we need to follow not the emotional strings of the heart.
Many of us stuck around in bad relationship accepting unacceptable behaviors because of what we saw as there “potential”. But reality says we have to date/be in a relationship with the reality of who they really are not the potential we think they may have.
I suppose I've come to the conclusion that I was absolutely blinded by love. I know that when I love, I love fully and trust fully and I don't see that as bad, I see it as a good quality and I don't want to lose that. However that being said, I've learnt a few lessons from this experience. Absolutely never again will I accept any type of drug use from any potential partners, and I'll be going into anything in the future looking at the bigger picture. Actions speak louder than words.