Originally Posted by
SmallButMighty 
Uggg the questions. I still have so many.
I have come to terms with the fact I will most likely never get the answers... or .... that I actually have received them, they just weren't what I to hear.....
The very best thing I've ever read on SR relating to this topic was lillamy's share that, "With addicts, you have to provide your own closure."
ESPECIALLY those still active in their addictions. Closure just doesn't exist in their world.