Originally Posted by
MissPerfumado 
Speaking from experience, I don't think this is about him much at all. I think it's about you.
I just now "got" this! It's not him that isn't ready for a relationship! It's me!
My mind is blown. I'm in the process of step 5 right now, and I'm realizing he didn't need to change or do anything for me to be okay. I thought HE was the one that needed to work on himself. I thought HE needed to be more emotionally available.
I can't stop chuckling at myself now at how out of touch my 'goodbye' text to him was.
Oh well! Moving on with my sobriety now
