Jek, I can totally empathize with you on this one! I often find it harder dealing with other people's opinion of my not drinking, then the fact I'm actually not drinking... You are still very early in this, and maybe your husband can cancel this time. Or perhaps you can let him hang out with them while you visit a friend, or go to a movie. If neither of these are an option, maybe just say you are not feeling all that great when they are there. That would give you a pass on drinking, and allow you to duck out early if it gets really boring watching them get loaded. Whatever you do, do not drink....Good luck!