Perhaps what you want are definite answers and most of all closure so you can indeed move on and get on with your life. If it's really over you need to know, in other words.
Well, even if say he gave you closure from his end of it and told you it was over, I'm thinking you would still have to come to your own closure about it. IMO closure doesn't just "happen" in most cases, but it's a process and it's usually not linear.