Sometimes we need a period of focusing on the hurtful thinks the a's have done in our lives. It takes a long time to get to the point of feeling GABEs post. I'm not there yet,too soon for me. I just came to the point of admitting my husband is an a not just someone who drinks to much.
People decide to stay and people decide to move on I admire both. It is people like myself who are just can't let go in ether direction.
nanad