Thanks again, all.
Bimini, my response to you may have come across as a bit curt. Apologies. That was not my intention at all. I really respect your opinion. I just didn't want anyone to think that I'd marched to the fridge, poured her a glass of wine and thrust it into her face.
We are just working out the parameters here. It is very early days. It's a little bit like having our first child. We just had to try stuff and see what worked. We got the hang of it in the end.
Giving up drinking is the most selfish thing I've ever done - which makes it a bit difficult to get my head around.
Thanks again.