Oh man can I relate. Married to golden boy for 21 years. Everyone telling me how great they think he is. Listened to my parents thank him for taking such good care of me after my surgery (he left me in a hotel room to go drinking then came home and passed out, it was very invasive cancer surgery should not have been left alone). I don't know about you guys but my AH always performed for an audience but when just us a total narcissist. A lot of people actually think I am crazy for kicking him out because all they see is the act.