Awe thx Mandy... it's funny this seemingly normal aggravation I had covered so many emotions. I felt robbed, betrayed, lied too, I felt scared, embarrassed and ashamed to use my own pool. So many emotions came out of this whole thing... This could have been any situation and to hold in resentments and stay quiet while having a rage build up inside isn't healthy for anyone. So yes, I faced my fears and with the help and support of this thread. I had to confront this very extremely uncomfortable situation head on. I got a lock on my gate and I had to tell them all open invite is no more. GAH... a few months of the silent treatment and dirty looks... and well it is kinda working itself out. Their kids are back to playing in my front yard, which I love and the adults are actually acting like adults now. Besides me having a horror movie shoot in my back yard. Yah... that was odd to have to tell them all that after all the drama. xo