Welcome
Your post is not offensive at all.
There, are many, many threads on this site where people talk about being able to have just one or two drinks and leave it at that, so called moderating. In reality, those who post here are unable to do that, we always take a first drink and then are unable to stop. We know therefore that total abstinence is the only pathway.
Life, an enjoyable life, a life BETTER than a life with alcohol, is attainable if you want it.